Soberful Women

Four-month sober coaching program for women who are ready to step into a fulfilled sober life.


Veronica Valli Author, Expert, Sober.

The Soberful Women coaching program is carefully designed to help you dismantle the thinking and behavior that has been holding you back from living up to the aspirations you have for yourself.

It’s all about achieving emotional sobriety or learning to deal with your emotions and feelings.

Emotional Sobriety: being able to cope well with life’s inevitable ups and downs


You’ve already stopped drinking and don't ever want to go back.

Getting sober has been tough but worth it. Yet, you’re still struggling to get to that place in sobriety that everyone says is so wonderful.

Hint: You’re not alone.

Emotional sobriety doesn’t just materialize out of nowhere. It takes a bit of work. And some keen direction from someone who’s been there.


Imagine This

Feeling excited about life!

Discovering how to have fun without drinking.

Navigating relationships with ease and confidence.

Feeling like what you do and who you are is enough.

No longer locking away your emotions until they explode or overreacting to every little thing that goes wrong!

Managing emotions with a “toolbox” of practices (instead of alcohol).

Going through this with a small group of women just like you!

Letting go of the shame you’ve built up from past behaviors...

Feeling understood and supported—no judgement.

Being the parent you always wanted to be.

Feeling motivated and finding your purpose.

Being free from the pressure to drink!

You don’t have to walk around feeling like you’re not getting it right or like you’re missing something. We’ll work on all of this and so much more inside Soberful Women.

Life is short. It’s time to make every day count.

Are you sober but still feeling stuck?


Any of this sound familiar?

  • You’re sober but often anxious.
  • Your emotions are all over the place.
  • You feel like you’re not living up to your potential.
  • You want to let go of everything that’s holding you back.
  • You want a program that’s simple yet REALLY works.
  • You’re not sure where to start.

Soberful Women Can Help


Veronica Valli Author, Expert, Sober.

I’m Veronica Valli, a recovery coach who helps people return to themselves.

Even though you’re sober and can’t imagine going back to a life of drinking, you still struggle to find a strong foundation where you feel like you can handle all that life hands you.

I help sober people transform their recovery, so they can finally feel excited about life and its potential.

Soberful Women is a 4-month coaching program that revamps your recovery by dealing with all of the root causes that made you want to drink in the first place—and that continue to show up because drinking wasn’t the real problem to begin with.

It’s a safe container for women to build foundations for sustainable sobriety.

Soberful Women Coaching Program will help you:

  • Feel at ease with the direction of your life.

  • Break free from the limiting beliefs hold you back in your recovery.

  • Live the life you want because your emotions no longer control you.

  • Finally become the woman you aspire to be.


“Working with Veronica changed my life. She helped me find the tools to begin to heal and create a picture of a full beautiful life in sobriety. On one of our first calls, she told me that my life could be in full color. I didn't believe her but today I can honestly say that sobriety is beyond anything I could have ever imagined when I reached out to her on that dark January day. Veronica took my hand, stood by my side, and rooted me on when I didn't know what to do next and thought I had to go at it alone.
Her words, inspiration, and tools are engraved in my heart and I go back to them over and over again to find strength, understanding, and a way forward. I am so grateful to have had her guidance and support as I began on one of the most difficult journeys of my life. I am forever grateful for Veronica and her work.”

—A “sober and free woman”

Here's What You Get:

A Personal Intensive Session

During this 90-minute session, you and I will do a deep dive that outlines the key issues you have to work on, and create your personal roadmap to stay sober and achieve your potential.

One Monthly One-to-One Call

Each month we will have a personal call that’s laser-focused on your blocks and next steps.

Fourteen 90-minute Group Coaching Calls

I will coach you through every part of the program, and you’ll leave each call crystal clear on your next steps. You’ll feel empowered and motivated because you know you are in the hands of an instructor with experience and knowledge. Questions can be submitted ahead of time, and you can listen to the calls when they are live or recorded.

Closed Online Group Dedicated to Soberful Women Members

Much of the support and coaching will take place inside the closed Facebook group. You will find daily support and help there.

Course Curriculum

Dedicated to Soberful women members

Learn how to use boundaries to keep you safe and sober. Discover which areas in your life need boundary adjustments and work on refining them so you have space to do the inner work of sobriety.

Understand what it means to create balance in your life in a way that meets your needs as you become the person you long to be.

To have thriving relationships with others requires that you have a healthy relationship with yourself. This is where we start. Then, we learn ways to navigate difficult relationships i, as well as ways to work on deepening beneficial relationships.

Guilt and shame are two difficult emotions that play a massive part in our drinking.⁣⁣ Develop tools to filter out the harmful toxic shame you’ve been carrying.

Fear, worry, stress, anxiety—we all face it in different ways, and it can make our lives very small. Learn how to free yourself from the grip fear has over you.

We all have resentments. Some are big traumas and others are small annoyances that build up day to day. Instead of suppressing them, we learn to lean into them and work through it.

Your thoughts and beliefs play a big role in your success in sobriety. We begin uncovering your limiting beliefs this week and shifting toward a growth mindset.

At the end, we consolidate everything you’ve learned into an empowering experience that carries you through the coming weeks, months, and years of living a soberful life.


I am so impressed with you and your program. Being a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist for 40 years (mostly retired now...), I have seen so much in the recovery field and the treatment field. As a subject matter expert, I have been in your (and Chip's, and Tamara's) shoes, providing lectures and workshops and the such. AND, on the other side of the tracks, I also have been a functional drug abuser...then later alcohol abuser for most of my life. 

Veronica, I mean it when I say your program is second to none. You are a brilliant and compassionate leader and healer. Your program is tight and well thought out. And your treatment style is so comfortable yet very serious, insightful and top-of-the-line professional. You have tremendous healing colleagues in Chip, Tamara, and Louise. I admire your energy and passion for what you do. 

I wanted to just step back and let you know how safe and confident I feel in your program. It is nice for me to now take my psychotherapeutic eyepieces off and let someone I trust take care of me. I trust you, Chip, Tamara & Louise...and all of the Soberful members who take their risks every day under the safe umbrella of your Soberful program."

— Ed Retired Therapist

Today marks 3 years of sobriety for me! I found the Soberful Life group about a year ago and it has helped me grow so much into a truly soberFUL life. At the time I was happy to be sober but knew there was more I was missing, and I found it in this group.

All of the workshops, shared experiences, and encouragement have helped me stretch and grow into a fuller, brighter sober life. I’ve connected with people and I really appreciate the recovery groups and support and feedback I’ve received. 

I can’t believe the amount of value we receive, it’s like having a sober coach to walk us through all of these different topics and challenges that you don’t think about but we all experience.

I’m so grateful to have found Soberful Life during my own sober journey!

—Jane, 43

I’m in my third year of sobriety and Soberful Life has been critical to my journey.

A huge amount of content: workshops, Q&As, regular guest speakers, and the ability to interact live with Veronica and Chip in online group recovery meetings.

It’s absolutely incredible value. A month’s membership for what I used to spend on a bottle of wine.

Veronica and Chip understand the struggle because they’ve been there. They are both in long-term recovery and both extremely experienced as they have worked for decades in the recovery field.

Long(er) term sobriety is about so much more than quitting drinking, it’s a complete mindset change, and Veronica and Chip will (gently) get you there.

 —Clare, 49


You want your life back.

Let's get started.

To apply for this program and learn more, book an obligation-free discovery call.

You may not know if Soberful Women is the right program for you.

In a Next-Step Assessment Call, you’ll talk to Veronica about your goals and life circumstances, and she’ll be able to give you some direction about what’s the next best possible step for you. 

Everyone is on a different path. Soberful keenly recognizes that. Sometimes you just need to know what’s possible for your unique situation. 

Veronica will discuss with you the options you have to stop drinking. If Soberful Women—or any other Soberful program—is the best option for you, we'll subtract $97 from the cost of the program. 

The Soberful Women program has a range of payment options that Veronica can discuss with you when you speak with her.


“I joined the group early on in my sobriety. The program was very focused and it felt a very safe container to be open, vulnerable, and to reach out when needed. I would recommend it to anyone starting the journey to sobriety as it will give you the tools to deal with situations and triggers. It will also help you to find the root cause of your alcohol abuse and show how to move forward.”

— Participant

Meet Your Coaches

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Veronica Valli is changing the narrative on sobriety. With 20 years in recovery and 17 years’ experience as a recovery coach and psychotherapist, she understands that there is no ONE path to recovery.

Author of books Why You Drink and How to Stop, Get Sober Get Free, and upcoming Soberful (to be published by Sounds True), and co-host of the Soberful Podcast, Veronica has helped thousands of women not only recover from alcohol, but also transform their lives.

Veronica teaches that alcohol is not the problem—it’s only a symptom of a deeper underlying problem. She helps women dig deep, embrace change, and become who they are meant to be. “I help you reveal yourself to yourself,” she says.

Veronica works with women all over the world through her successful and innovative online recovery programs. Now based in the US after relocating from the UK, she is married and lives on Long Island, NY with her husband and two sons.

Tamara Kirby has helped hundreds of people recover from active addiction as a Licensed Addictions Counselor and International Certified Drug and Alcohol Counselor. She uses her own recovery as well as her clinical skills and education to lead the path in stigma reduction, raising community awareness, and educating businesses. She helps businesses change company policy and build a better business by meeting the needs of their employees.

She has opened and maintained the development of two addiction treatment programs in the past five years. Currently she is a treatment consultant with the Indiana Center for Recovery and Haven Behavioral Health as well as the community manager of Soberful Life.

Frequently Asked Questions

Group coaching is a very effective way to achieve transformational growth. We often feel that we are alone and cannot see a clear way to move forward. In reality, the challenges we struggle with are actually very common. This group will be hand-picked to ensure it is a safe-supportive space. Guided and supported by Chip and Veronica, who will ensure you gain the tools you need to grow and change. Group coaching is much more affordable than individual coaching.

The group coaching calls will be recorded and available to view for about 7 days. This is to ensure that everyone stays up to date if they happen to miss a session.

The personal coaching sessions are a chance to go deeper into the reasons you drank and how your thinking is holding you back. We’ll spend time focusing on the areas that will help you change your mindset so that you can change your life. We will give you tools to do that and personalized feedback along the way.

If you are here reading this now, it’s because you have followed Chip and Veronica’s work. You know our experience and qualifications (see below), and you know we are both in long-term sobriety. You will also know that we are qualified and experienced professionals. You may have also been searching for a while and may have tried different things to enhance your sobriety that didn’t help as much as you wanted them to. If you have the willingness, then we have the tools and experience to move you forward.

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We are not licensed health professionals. The information in this program is for educational purposes only and is not meant to replace any advice from a healthcare professional. Please consult your healthcare professional before you plan to give up alcohol.